As I meandered through the brightly colored flea market on a tiny tropical island in Mexico, my heart sank when I saw this image on t-shirts available for both men and women. I wondered, “Has the idea of being in a committed marriage really come down to a joke on a t-shirt?” Although it is true that we are all playing the game of life, many of us don’t realize that we are all winning the hidden, individual games we are playing within the game. For some of us, these wins are p